孩子，不要害怕受伤。人生的路很长，也很短，在于你怎么看待你的这段人生路程。没有人能够顺顺利利的走完他们的一生，路上总会有磕磕绊绊。无论你跌的多重，你还是得爬起来，继续走。你可以休息，想休息多久都可以。但是，总要有重新开始的时候。无论你用爬，用走，还是用跑，总是还得继续下去的。

时间不是你的朋友，它会推着你走。不管你愿不愿意，所以，我更希望，你能知道，路的方向，是你自己选的，坚定地走。你的人生路上会出现好多朋友。有些是真心的好朋友，有些是有心机的朋友。他们会在你的路途上出现，会给你使绊子，会给你建议。这些都是你要经历的。你能分辨还是不能，那是你自己的智慧。跌倒多了，你自然会分辨。如果你真的不知道如何做决定，永远选择一个你喜欢的，那至少你不会那么后悔。

去喜欢你喜欢的人，不管你用什么办法，多想想总会有办法的。对她好，不要冷战，有问题，多沟通。如果你同时喜欢两个，又不知道怎么选，可以选第二个，因为如果你喜欢第一个，那就不会有第二个。

要抱有希望，无论你在顺境、逆境或者是绝境，不要抛弃希望。人类比其他类有的，就是希望。没有希望，那自己就创造希望。要有光，有光的地方，那里就是你的希望。

很多人喜欢在事情发送之后说假如是他就如何如何的。。。貌似他就是那位天上派来拯救世界的英雄。 可惜世界没有假如，某某也只能在聊天的时候意淫一下而已。

事情发生了就让他发生了，好的坏的，我们只能在事后检讨和补救而已。

我这大半生做过了很多事，好事的有，坏的也不少，不能一一都去处理好，但我百分之九十九都无悔我所做的事。后悔，肯定是有的，对我来说，已经发生了，已经不值一提了。

从来不要因为你后悔做了某件事，某种决定而痛苦的停止不前；时间还是照样的走，人还是照样的长大，变老。勇敢的面对他，可能很多年过后，你会发觉他不值一晒。

人生有限，我们能做的事情也只有那么的多，不要停滞不前。 往后看可以检讨，回顾，怀念，但是一定要往前走。不要因为怕而逃避，不要因为怕而绕道走。

困难来了，把他吃了，再吐出来。世界上没有什么是吃不了的。如果有，再吃一次，再吐出来。

well today my son just turn a year old. and i am far away from him now. did i missed my son? well i have not seen him personally ever since last year chinese new year. why is that? well everyone has a story to tell.

i bought Woody as a present that was never sent out though.

you only live once. never be afraid of doing anything jr. face what you at most fear like nothing. never missed anything that you will regret for life. love someone? work your way out to get her. well i don’t mind if he is a guy sonny, so long it makes you happy.

live your life like there is no tomorrow. well no one knows whats gonna happen tomorrow anyway, so go ahead, the world is yours, do whatever you like, however, you need to face the consequences. have balls to deal with it though, the last time i check when i change on your dippers, it is still perfectly attached.

love your friends like your siblings, they will be with you, all the time, it could be vary people, but they are all in the category that we so called them friends. parents, siblings, spouse can all be gone,  but friends last forever. you may not have to believe in peoples, but you need to learn to believe your friends. from time to time, you will find your best friend along your life, at different people, different time, different place.

first thing first, what’s important? think. yes, u have to learn to think, think before you act, think before you say. think before you start doing anything.  let me quote this for you:

Watch your thoughts, for they become words.
Watch your words, for they become actions.
Watch your actions, for they become habits.
Watch your habits, for they become character.
Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.

when you starts thinking, things never goes wrong. look around you, you will easily find out who never use their brains to think, it is not difficult to find out, if you gets whom i am pointing to. if you do, papa is glad, it shows that the brains are developing well.

to help you to think, try to play chess, board games, brain teasing games, any games that utilized brains are good for you.

to help you to think further, then go open up your eyes, go see the world, see how much differences are in this world would be, how much differences from what you have lived up and this world, how small we are.

there are never be a good thoughts or bad thoughts, there are only positives and negetives thoughts, and please son, always keep the positive ones, negative thoughts brings no values but constructive and catastrophic consequences, it always leads you to the wrong decisions. in your character, you can be good or bad character, i do not mind that you would become a terrorist or mobster, just don;t make a wrong decisions due to the negative thoughts.

one mind at a time, too many minds, no good. well we will go through that when it reaches lesson no.95, concentrates.

just created a new category: stuffs for junior.

always wanted to write something for my junior to read on, well life’s short, who know?s i might not have enough time to teach him how to be a real man, better i could write on here for him/them to read on.

first thing i want you to know jr, is that i am always be proud of you. no matter you are the most badass man in this universe, the crowd blender, or be a respectful man. no matter which path you are picking up, you always have ur pap behind ur back.

face fear with courage, have nothing to lose, we eat fear.

face sorrow with joy, live like no tomorrow.

face stress like toy, we toyed stress.

have courage and joy, they are in our blood.