get over it. everyone act differently when bad things happens. some people are always open up for advice, some people keep on hiding, some people loves self defending, some loves lying, some loves diversify the focus, some loves to magnify the issues. whatever the approaches, the objectives are clear: to get the things solved.

for some reason, sometimes it is good to looked fool and act fool. very obvious u get to see all kinda people using all kinda approaches.